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Tuesday, 17 January 2012
Saturday, 31 December 2011
Blessing to all my friends
May you always make the right move.
May your cup runneth over with love
May you always find shelter from any storm
May you remain good looking and looking good
May you find the perfect diet for your body and soul.
May you find the perfect balance with the company that you keep.
May you make as much fun as you can before someone makes you stop
May the worst thing that happens to you come in slobbery pink and furry TAN
May you manage to MAKE time for TIME OUT!
May all new folks that you meet be interesting and kind.
May you always know when to walk away and when to RUN.
And May your family and friends always bring you joy.
May the last month of 2011 be your BEST month EVER!!!May this time only hold good health, successful projects, professional growth and happiness for you and your loved ones!
Monday, 26 December 2011
The Art Of Living
Haha! it is cute, isn't it? And is very meaningful. ^ ^
Ya! Ya! Nobody responsible to your own life even your family members like your parents, siblings, husband or your wife, even your children.
When somebody said word(s) or act something(s) that hurt you, is your own feeling that annoying yourself, that made yourself sad. No others, is you.
You think they were bad to you and all feeling start to be generated and you can't stop blaming others-- " She is the one who made me sad"; " He was so irresponsible"; " Why you treat me like that? I had contributed so much in the relationship"; " Nobody love me."; "I was abundance, they don't need me anymore.", " Why everybody bully me?"; "Oh! Today is a unlucky day for me!!"; "ARrrrrr, I hate traffic jam, the government made a bad city development planning.",etc.
And we started to put our 'wish' on others--
"You must get good score in your test so that you can manage to enter the good school."; " You always not listen to me, this made me worry."; " Why you don't do this? Why you dont' do that?",etc
We become involved with the unpleasant and separated from pleasant. We fail to get what we want; instead we get what we do not want. All these situation is suffering.
For each of us, the "I", the ego, the image we have of ourselves is most important person in the world. But none of us is alone in the world, one "I" is bound to come into conflict with another. We each develop great attachment to what we possess, because it is associated with us, it supports the image of "I".
We each convinced that our own views and traditions are the best and become very upset whenever we hear them criticized. If we try to explain our views and others do not accept them, again we become upset.
We fail to recognized that each person has his or her own beliefs. It is futile to argue about which view is correct; more beneficial would be to set aside any preconceived notions and to try to see reality. However, our attachment to views prevents us from doing so, keeping us unhappy.
Come back to ourselves, and look deep into ourselves and found out:- no others but I am the one who made me suffering.
Reference:- The art of Living, Vipassana Meditation as taught by S.N. Goenka, by Willian Hart
Wednesday, 23 November 2011
每个人都是个‘老灵魂‘
当你一来到这个世界时，你就带着了一个‘老灵魂’。^ ^
你知道所有的一切。你拥有很多的智慧。
但是，‘老灵魂’在内心躲了起来。看看你有没有办法把他/她找出来。
当你一来到这个世界时，你就得借着这个物质世界，做完你该做的一些功课。学会了课程后，才回去。^ ^ 但，也有人没法把全部的功课做完。 那， 就得等到再回到物质世界时把功课做完。这次做完功课的人，会有新的功课要做。
哎呀！这样没完没了呀！^ ^ 看上去好像如此呢。。。但，当有一天，全部该做的都做完了，那么，就不必再做功课了。^ ^ v
有时候，人生遇到了困难，不如去问问‘老灵魂’：‘你之前是做了什么呀？我现在得做这么麻烦的功课。”或者问：“你又要我学什么了啊？”这样，解决问题就变成了完成功课的一部分。这样，一切看起来很难的东西，似乎可以变得更加得从容了。因为，知道只要功课做完后，以后都不需再做那样的功课了。（所谓完成功课是要彻底的领悟了， 接纳，并放下）
这样想。。。好想天空会变得蓝一点，风也凉了一点儿，太阳会偷偷的笑，下起雨都觉得雨儿在跳舞。^ ^
你是很有智慧的，赶快把‘老灵魂’的智慧挖出来吧！>_<
你知道所有的一切。你拥有很多的智慧。
但是，‘老灵魂’在内心躲了起来。看看你有没有办法把他/她找出来。
当你一来到这个世界时，你就得借着这个物质世界，做完你该做的一些功课。学会了课程后，才回去。^ ^ 但，也有人没法把全部的功课做完。 那， 就得等到再回到物质世界时把功课做完。这次做完功课的人，会有新的功课要做。
哎呀！这样没完没了呀！^ ^ 看上去好像如此呢。。。但，当有一天，全部该做的都做完了，那么，就不必再做功课了。^ ^ v
有时候，人生遇到了困难，不如去问问‘老灵魂’：‘你之前是做了什么呀？我现在得做这么麻烦的功课。”或者问：“你又要我学什么了啊？”这样，解决问题就变成了完成功课的一部分。这样，一切看起来很难的东西，似乎可以变得更加得从容了。因为，知道只要功课做完后，以后都不需再做那样的功课了。（所谓完成功课是要彻底的领悟了， 接纳，并放下）
这样想。。。好想天空会变得蓝一点，风也凉了一点儿，太阳会偷偷的笑，下起雨都觉得雨儿在跳舞。^ ^
Tuesday, 1 November 2011
Gift
A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.
As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.
Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.
Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart.
He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL.
How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?
As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.
Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.
Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart.
He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL.
How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?
Sunday, 16 October 2011
Thursday, 6 October 2011
僕の お誕生日 おめでとう！＾＾
今日は 私の 誕生日です。とても 感謝します。たっくさん 祝福を受けて。ありがとう ございました。＾＾
実際には また一人から 祝福をえたいと思うが それは 奇跡です。その人は私の誕生日を知りませんでしたので。^ ^
しかし、やはりあの人から祝福を得ることを望みます。はあああ。。。>_< ちょっと 可愛い考え。＾＾
二人の友人は夕食に私に一緒に食べました。素晴らし ね。＾＾
私の誕生日願い...ははああ。。。秘密です。＾＾v
僕の夢の実現の道中. 頑張ります。
実際には また一人から 祝福をえたいと思うが それは 奇跡です。その人は私の誕生日を知りませんでしたので。^ ^
しかし、やはりあの人から祝福を得ることを望みます。はあああ。。。>_< ちょっと 可愛い考え。＾＾
二人の友人は夕食に私に一緒に食べました。素晴らし ね。＾＾
私の誕生日願い...ははああ。。。秘密です。＾＾v
僕の夢の実現の道中. 頑張ります。
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